Lavender is a Mediterranean plant at heart, and that single fact explains almost every problem British gardeners have with it. It wants hot, dry summers, poor stony ground and winters that are cold but crisp rather than cold and sodden. Our summers are often adequate; it is the wet, mild winters that do the damage, rotting the roots of plants that looked perfectly healthy in August.
The good news is that lavender is genuinely easy once you accept its terms. Give it sun, give it drainage, keep it lean, prune it properly and it will reward you for a decade or more. Push it towards rich, damp, shaded ground and it will sulk, go leggy and die within a couple of seasons.
Full sun means at least six hours a day in high summer, and the hottest spot you can offer is the best one. A south-facing border against a wall, a sunny slope, or the open front of a plot where nothing casts shade after mid-morning all work well. Lavender grown in part shade produces soft, floppy growth, very few flowers and a scent that is a shadow of what it should be.
Shelter matters too, but not for the reason many people assume. Lavender is perfectly hardy down to well below freezing. What it hates is wind-driven rain through winter and roots sitting in cold, saturated soil. A position that catches the sun and drains freely, even if it is slightly exposed, beats a warm, still corner where water collects.
If you take one thing from this article, take this: lavender dies of wet roots far more often than of cold. On heavy clay, or anywhere water stands after rain, you must improve the situation before planting.
Do not add compost, manure or rich multipurpose potting compost to the planting hole. Lavender is a plant of poor soils, and fertility encourages soft growth that is both short-lived and prone to winter damage.
Spring is the ideal time to plant in most of the UK, from late March through to May, giving roots time to settle before winter. Autumn planting can work on light, free-draining soils, but on clay it usually ends badly.
Gravel gardens suit lavender beautifully. A deep mulch of 5–8cm of gravel around the plant keeps foliage dry, suppresses weeds and reflects heat upwards. Keep the gravel clear of the stems themselves, and never mound mulch up against the crown.
Containers are an excellent option if your soil is heavy. Use a mix of roughly two parts loam-based compost to one part horticultural grit, plant into terracotta or another breathable pot, and stand it on feet so water drains freely. Terracotta dries out faster than plastic, which is a benefit here rather than a drawback.
Newly planted lavender needs watering through its first summer, particularly in dry spells. After that, established plants in the ground rarely need supplementary water at all. In pots, water when the compost has dried out, always at the base rather than over the foliage, and never leave the pot standing in a saucer of water.
Feeding is where enthusiastic gardeners do harm. There is no need for rich feeds, and general-purpose fertiliser will simply produce floppy, short-lived growth. A light scattering of wood ash in spring, or a handful of a low-nitrogen feed if the plant looks genuinely pale, is ample. If your lavender is growing strongly and flowering well, do nothing at all.
Lavender flowers on new growth, so annual pruning keeps the plant compact and productive. The rule is simple: prune lightly, and never cut back into old, bare wood. Lavender will not regrow from leafless, woody stems, and hard pruning into the old framework leaves permanent dead patches.
The main cut comes immediately after flowering, usually late August to early September in most of Britain. Take off the spent flower stems plus roughly 2–3cm of this year's leafy growth, using sharp secateurs. Aim to leave a tidy, rounded cushion of foliage. If you miss the window and frost is approaching, leave the plant alone and tidy it lightly in April instead — a slightly scruffy lavender overwinters far better than a freshly wounded one.
For hedges, trim twice: a light tidy in spring and the main cut after flowering, always keeping the shape wider at the base than the top so light reaches the lower growth.
Through winter, the aim is to keep the crown dry. Remove fallen leaves from around the base, avoid walking on saturated ground near the roots and resist the urge to cut back in wet weather. In very wet regions, growing lavender in pots that can be moved under cover from November to March is a sensible compromise.
Pests are few. Rosemary beetle and lavender beetle can nibble foliage, and cuckoo spit appears in spring, but neither usually justifies spraying. Sudden collapse of a plant in wet weather is almost always root rot, and there is no cure — remove it and improve drainage before replanting.
For most UK gardens, English lavenders such as Hidcote, Munstead and Folgate are the reliable choices, with compact types like Little Lady ideal for pots and edging. The larger Lavandula x intermedia varieties flower later and make superb cut stems, though they are a little less hardy in cold, wet districts, while French and Spanish lavenders are best treated as short-lived plants in pots or in the mildest coastal gardens.